I have been abused in some way, in all my relationships, and that's why I ended them. Never physical, because I won't let anyone get away with that but emotional, sexual. I've also abused people accidentally, but also ended relationships due to that. I feel good about the fact I know when to leave, most don't. My mom had the worst, her first husband beat her, and her second, my dad, was a mental abuser. Luckily she's free of both, and I learned how to spot mental abuse from my dad, and avoid it. It's really awful how many people I know are in abusive relationships.
I don't really know. I want to say yes it seems that at times someone can be abusive in any manner. But then I just think it's normal relationship BS and so forth. haha so who knows? I guess I could be but not know it O.o