I believe that it exists, but I dont...although if you want to, go right ahead! I have no reason to care whether or no someone else does it...well unless it's my partner lol, then I would't be very happy!
I believe in abstinence for people who want to be abstinent. If they don't, that's their thing.
Personally, I wanted to wait until marriage, but then I ended up changing my mind (or should I say, my boyfriend changed my mind, lol). My boyfriend had already said that he wanted to marry me anyway and we're still planning on getting married in a year or two, so yeah. If I hadn't been sure, I wouldn't have done it. (I still call him my boyfriend because I don't have the ring on my finger because my father told him he wouldn't say yes until my boyfriend had a full-time job so that we would be all set when we got married.
Well.....I do. For the most part. I mean, I don't think that high schoolers should be running out and sleeping with everybody (although such opinion appears to be ignored) but for me, it's not actually legal for me to marry my girlfriend. So we have agreed that it'd be fine once we move in together. But for the most part, I think it just makes more sense to wait until you're married. Buuut I don't think that people who DON'T wait are bad people either.
No. I think one should have sex when they are ready (and over the legal age of consent, of course). It's definitely a personal choice, of course, and not something that should be shoved on to other people. (Like so many people you see preaching about how having sex before marriage makes you a bad person, etc.)
It is one of the hardest things a person can do, but it is definitely worth it. My wedding day was one of the best days of my life because I knew that my husband and I had won the battle against our own instinctive drives. Also, sex tends to only get in the way of a relationship, you focus on physicality rather than the other person. It also tends to make it harder to break up with a person, and the emotional aftermath of the break up is worse as well.