My dear watchers, can one of you please tell me why guys are such assholes?
There's this guy I knew from high school. A few years ago, we had a minor falling out and I ended up cutting off contact (which included deleting him off Facebook) just because I was too annoyed to deal with him. He re-added me as a friend on Facebook and a few weeks ago, I decided to accept him. I figured that it's been years and he was fun to talk to, so why not.
For whatever reason, he didn't realize that I have a boyfriend, even though the information is right there on Facebook. One day, he was texting me and when I mentioned my boyfriend, he was quite surprised. He then told me that it sucked because now that meant that we had no chance together.
I tried to brush it off as politely as possible by laughing and saying that we weren't right for each other.
He then responded by telling me that I'm in denial.
If I'm in such denial, why am I happily with him and not you?
To be completely honest, I have respect for people who back off of a person once they find out said person is in a relationship.
I was having lunch with a friend one day when he invited one of his friends, a guy I didn't know. We had a nice lunch, but I had some work to finish up, so I was the first one to leave. The next day, my friend told me that he was asking about me and whether or not I had a boyfriend. He was upset to find out that I did, but he completely backed off once he did find out. He never flirted with me, never hit on me, never made any rude comments regarding my relationship, etc.
And I really liked that.
If two people are happy together, why try to break them up. Just . . . piss off.
Sorry about the ramble. Just needed to rant.
Thank you all so much for your wonderful comments. You guys are amazing.
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