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Guys are assholes

Journal Entry: Wed Jan 2, 2013, 9:51 PM
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My dear watchers, can one of you please tell me why guys are such assholes?

There's this guy I knew from high school. A few years ago, we had a minor falling out and I ended up cutting off contact (which included deleting him off Facebook) just because I was too annoyed to deal with him. He re-added me as a friend on Facebook and a few weeks ago, I decided to accept him. I figured that it's been years and he was fun to talk to, so why not.

For whatever reason, he didn't realize that I have a boyfriend, even though the information is right there on Facebook. One day, he was texting me and when I mentioned my boyfriend, he was quite surprised. He then told me that it sucked because now that meant that we had no chance together.
:|
I tried to brush it off as politely as possible by laughing and saying that we weren't right for each other.
He then responded by telling me that I'm in denial.

If I'm in such denial, why am I happily with him and not you?

To be completely honest, I have respect for people who back off of a person once they find out said person is in a relationship.
I was having lunch with a friend one day when he invited one of his friends, a guy I didn't know. We had a nice lunch, but I had some work to finish up, so I was the first one to leave. The next day, my friend told me that he was asking about me and whether or not I had a boyfriend. He was upset to find out that I did, but he completely backed off once he did find out. He never flirted with me, never hit on me, never made any rude comments regarding my relationship, etc.
And I really liked that.

If two people are happy together, why try to break them up. Just . . . piss off.

Sorry about the ramble. Just needed to rant.
Thanks for listening reading. :)

EDIT:
Thank you all so much for your wonderful comments. You guys are amazing. :heart: :hug:




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*TheRafflesia Feb 1, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
There are some really insane guys whom unfortunately one can meet often. Some don't even get mature enough when they reach their adulthood. But don't pay attention. There are also kind guys (such as your boyfriend) and you shall pay attention on those people who value you. If someone'd keep on molesting you, just cut off the contact.
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~Peenalope Jan 8, 2013  Student General Artist
I can't say too much as I've never had this problem but I'd say its best to try and ignore it.
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`TwiggyTeeluck Jan 8, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
That's what I'm trying right now. I feel like that's what's best to do before taking a more active approach. Thanks. :)
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:iconniukaloka:
once, I met a guy, and we became very close friends. When I told him I had a boyfriend, he started to "try" to flirt with me, and everytime I had a problem with my boyfriend, this guy told me to broke up with him... =(

Even one day he come to me with a video he made. In it, my boyfriend was (JUST) dancing with another girl (this girl is my best friend and I don't care if they dance, I trust both of them, but the guy didn't know) and told me "look what he did...why don't you do the same?" that SUCKS!!

THOSE ARE INSANE GUYS... don't let them to enter in your life...
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`TwiggyTeeluck Jan 14, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Ouch, that really sucks. :(
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:iconsaskia22:
There is a BIG percentage of assholes certainly.
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`TwiggyTeeluck Jan 8, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
:thumbsup:
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~beefbuns Jan 4, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Well they're not all assholes since you just proved it in the last paragraph.
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:icontwiggyteeluck:
`TwiggyTeeluck Jan 4, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
I know. :nod:
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:iconmexicanhumpingbean:
They're not very bright either, but think they're brilliant. :P
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